There could be someone who doesn't behave well with you, despite your good behavior towards them.
There could be someone who always criticize you.
There could be someone who think themselves great and underestimate you.
There could be someone who is jealous of you and show their jealous by yelling at you.
Then it's their problem.
With people who do things that are incorrect, your attitude should be that of ignoring them. Then your action can be one of correctness. But if you are emotionally upset, then your mind starts thinking of ideas to teach them a lesson. Your behaviour indicates that you want them to change because it's inconvenient for you.
When you want to teach them a lesson, it never happens because you are doing it with anger. The one who has true compassion can teach people a real lesson. One who says, 'Look my dear, what you are doing is not good for you.' Then they will listen, it touches their heart. But if you say, 'What you are doing is hurting me, then they will not listen.'
Have this attitude: 'Come what may, I will not get hurt,. If someone is going to be nasty, I will learn to be compassionate.'
The anger is boiling inside them, so don't welcome their negativity into your
system. That's where you need to shield your mind. We need to save our mind. We say – save the planet, save the environment, save this and that, but nobody says save the mind. Think they have left that task to us.
We have to go with this slogan – save your mind at all cost.
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